One of my friends promised me for an outing and missed it as he has an appointment with his girl...
He said... Dude! Hope you can understand me...
I said thats ok.. you carry on...
Got bored...
Thought someone may join me and made a cal to another friend...
she is busy with her work and stated the same statement... you can understand me na buddy...
Few such incidents lead me to think on "understanding"
why does everyone say understand me??
what exactly does this 'understand me' mean??
Do we really understand a person?
if yes how? if not why?
No one can really understand another person.
I would say understanding a person is not true for 99%...
Human thinking varies from time to time...
As all of us(humans) are gifted with a dangerous organ called brain, which has the ability to think and which helps one in differentiating things from one another and this is that thinking which keeps on tuning our brain inturn changing the focus of mind from from one to the other.
Change in the focus is because of the intervention of human with nature...
There exists a beautiful relationship between nature and human.
The human mind thinks that nature is never still.As one moves from place to place,nature changes...
wet rainy forests changes to deserts, cloud icy mountains turns into vast oceans.Even one sits in a place observes nature changing with time.Plants wither and die,animals migrate, seasons change,sun sets and rises,moon waxes and wanes.Everything born evantually dies.
Nature is made to be like whatever and however it can..
But it is human mind that is not still...
One can never reach others expectations to the full.Better way is to experience the person.
It is difficult to depict that one behaves like this or like that in a particular sitaution.
But one can get used to the behaviour of the other person,so that that helps him in understanding the his behavior in that situation.
Things vary from person to person and time to time...
what was right in the past may be wrong in the future.
what was good in one part may be bad in the other.
what one person find beautiful may be ugly to the other...
It is the situation that one should understand and behave... I call it as a smart work...
Situations often comes here and there and people act according to it in different ways...
If situatuion demands... we have to do anything which may even be out of our scope...
One can easily figure it out that he who understood the situation and behaved succeeded in life...
If you call it understanding a person, then...
Understanding a human requires one to be at a higher frequency to the one who he is trying to understand.
whenever two persons are speaking there exists a frequency for each person... this can be called as natural frequency... which may be same for two or more...
Sometimes we say our tastes matches...
Same pinch,Great minds think alike and all that stuff...
This is what exactly happens...
Your thinking frequency matches with that of the other guy so that you both think alike...
That is why if you stuck with a problem you get many ideas from others than yourself as they think beyond your frequency range...
That is why for manythings, we approach a greater person who can see things beyond what we can...
Right from ages and puranas the tradition of Marriage between two persons is made in such a way that husband is elder to wife...
This helps the husband to understand the wife as he is experienced and has an exposure to many things.. so that they lead a happy life together.
One who is experienced can understand things in a better way...
So experience the experienced...
Experience certainity ;)
He said... Dude! Hope you can understand me...
I said thats ok.. you carry on...
Got bored...
Thought someone may join me and made a cal to another friend...
she is busy with her work and stated the same statement... you can understand me na buddy...
Few such incidents lead me to think on "understanding"
why does everyone say understand me??
what exactly does this 'understand me' mean??
Do we really understand a person?
if yes how? if not why?
No one can really understand another person.
I would say understanding a person is not true for 99%...
Human thinking varies from time to time...
As all of us(humans) are gifted with a dangerous organ called brain, which has the ability to think and which helps one in differentiating things from one another and this is that thinking which keeps on tuning our brain inturn changing the focus of mind from from one to the other.
Change in the focus is because of the intervention of human with nature...
There exists a beautiful relationship between nature and human.
The human mind thinks that nature is never still.As one moves from place to place,nature changes...
wet rainy forests changes to deserts, cloud icy mountains turns into vast oceans.Even one sits in a place observes nature changing with time.Plants wither and die,animals migrate, seasons change,sun sets and rises,moon waxes and wanes.Everything born evantually dies.
Nature is made to be like whatever and however it can..
But it is human mind that is not still...
One can never reach others expectations to the full.Better way is to experience the person.
It is difficult to depict that one behaves like this or like that in a particular sitaution.
But one can get used to the behaviour of the other person,so that that helps him in understanding the his behavior in that situation.
Things vary from person to person and time to time...
what was right in the past may be wrong in the future.
what was good in one part may be bad in the other.
what one person find beautiful may be ugly to the other...
It is the situation that one should understand and behave... I call it as a smart work...
Situations often comes here and there and people act according to it in different ways...
If situatuion demands... we have to do anything which may even be out of our scope...
One can easily figure it out that he who understood the situation and behaved succeeded in life...
If you call it understanding a person, then...
Understanding a human requires one to be at a higher frequency to the one who he is trying to understand.
whenever two persons are speaking there exists a frequency for each person... this can be called as natural frequency... which may be same for two or more...
Sometimes we say our tastes matches...
Same pinch,Great minds think alike and all that stuff...
This is what exactly happens...
Your thinking frequency matches with that of the other guy so that you both think alike...
That is why if you stuck with a problem you get many ideas from others than yourself as they think beyond your frequency range...
That is why for manythings, we approach a greater person who can see things beyond what we can...
Right from ages and puranas the tradition of Marriage between two persons is made in such a way that husband is elder to wife...
This helps the husband to understand the wife as he is experienced and has an exposure to many things.. so that they lead a happy life together.
One who is experienced can understand things in a better way...
So experience the experienced...
Experience certainity ;)
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